Merry Christmas

& Best Wishes

Reflecting on the Year Past,
Welcoming the Year Ahead

Dear friends and supporters of Victory for Equality,

We are nearing the end of this year and we are looking back on an immensely fruitful and productive year.

A year where we have re-started the shaping of and implementation of Victory for Equality's near-future projects.

For the past ten years, we have been active in South Africa, where I, as researcher, but also as Director and Founder of the Victory for Equality Foundation, have lived and worked for an extended period of time (and still do). Where I have been conducting research on men, (sexual) violence, and how men and women can come together in greater mutual understanding, especially in the context of gender-based violence.

Most of this work has taken place in the townships of Cape Town and Johannesburg, as well as the rural areas around the town of Genadendal.

After years of working closely with local people, our new projects have started to grow from the ground up. They will officially open in 2026.

We are proud to now share these projects with you. Because at Victory for Equality, we believe in:

"A world where men and women have equal value."

Gender Reconciliation Programs

Violence between men and women — physical, sexual, emotional — is devastatingly high across the world. But in South Africa, the situation is even more extreme: one woman is murdered every three hours. Violence between men is also highly visible, yet rarely met with empathy.

The Gender Reconciliation programs, run by GenderWorks in South Africa and now in partnership with Victory for Equality, bring men and women (and people of all genders) together to speak the unspeakable — and to truly listen.

Inspired by South Africa's Truth and Reconciliation Commission after apartheid, the approach focuses on:

• Acknowledging pain on both sides
• Silent listening to each other's stories
• Truth-telling

These programs aim to address the deep-rooted forms of violence embedded in our society.

There are no lectures or quick fixes. Instead, participants enter a brave process of storytelling, reflection, and mutual witnessing. The goal? To uncover the hidden pain we carry around gender and begin to transform it — bringing what they've learned back into their families, communities, and even government structures.

Across South Africa, these programs have reached government officials, community leaders, educators, and everyday citizens.

Participants leave with more than just awareness. They leave with practical tools:

• Better communication
• More empathy
• A renewed sense of responsibility in their families, workplaces, and communities

Empowering women is important. And we must continue to do so. But if we only address one side of the problem and ignore the deeper roots, we risk deepening the divide between men and women.

Real change happens when men and women come together, face what has gone wrong, and begin the healing process — not just for ourselves, but for future generations.

Victory for Equality aims to bring these programs into the townships of South Africa's Western Cape — areas often forgotten and overlooked, where violence is highest and support is lowest.

These programs are needed all over the world. But we are starting in South Africa, where the need is greatest and where our teams are ready.

The Genadendal Project

During the time of research, many years in Genadendal were spent (by myself as a cultural anthropologist) a small community in the Theewaterskloof area of South Africa's Overberg region.

Genadendal and surrounding villages are struggling with poverty, alcohol and drug abuse, domestic violence, and a lack of opportunities — especially for children and young people.

Together with the community and local transformation board, we have the intention of implementing sustainable projects for the safety and educational growth in the community.

Phase 1:

We are creating safe spaces where children can go after school — where they receive food and healthy nutrition, both of which are often lacking at home.

In addition:

Victory for Equality will contribute by:

• Providing for basic needs:
  • Safe shelters for children (who often come home alone or to unsafe environments)
  • Healthy food and nutrition
• Providing support for education for the youth of Genadendal, to give them future opportunities, they otherwise would not have had.

Long-term vision:

Our goal is to create a safer foundation for the young people of Genadendal. To shape and build their lives further up on. Lives that are now threatened by such fundamental and urgent needs as safety and lack of opportunities, that a natural and sustainable future development for them is often not possible. To create safety, security and education with Victory for Equality's support, will help them grow into a state of more wellbeing and a better future.

What Does It Cost?

We are currently fundraising for both of these projects:

How Can You Help?

We would love — and truly need — your help and support to make this possible. You can help us by:

• Donating via our website or directly to our bank account (see below)
• Linking a fundraiser for Victory for Equality to an event at your company, school, club, or association
• Inviting Victory for Equality to speak at your organization — I would be honored to share our work and open up new opportunities, networks, and collaborations

We — and all the community members we work with — would be so deeply grateful for your support!

With a warm embrace,

On behalf of our team and the communities we proudly standby,

Caroline Dusée

South Africa, Western Cape

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Victory for Equality (V4E) is a Dutch-based non-profit organisation focused on creating a peaceful and equal future for people worldwide.